So, I just want to post some random pictures. I haven't pulled the Christmas pictures off of my camera yet, but here are some favorites from Thanksgiving and December.
Tuesday, December 30, 2008
Pre-Christmas adventures:
So, I just want to post some random pictures. I haven't pulled the Christmas pictures off of my camera yet, but here are some favorites from Thanksgiving and December.
Monday, December 29, 2008
Distracted
Here are the rules: I have to answer the following questions with one word answers and one word only!
1. Where is your cell phone? Here
2. Where is your significant other? Undiscovered
3. Your hair color? Brown
4. Your mother? Clown
5. Your father? Grump
6. Your favorite thing? Friends
7. Your dream last night? Forgotten
8. Your dream/goal? Family
9. The room you're in? cubicle
10. Your hobby? snowboarding
11. Your fear? boredom
12. Where do you want to be in 6 years? family
13. Where were you last night? Mom's
14. What you're not? disciplined
15. One of your wish-list items? freedom
16. Where you grew up? Cloverdale
17. The last thing you did? work
18. What are you wearing? yellow
19. Your TV? dirty
20. Your pet? moose
21. Your computer? puter
22. Your mood? distracted
23. Missing someone? Brimball
24. Your car? squeaky
25. Something you're not wearing? lipstick
26. Favorite store? Target
27. Your summer? Palisades
28. Love someone? BUNCHES!
29. Your favorite color? green
30. When is the last time you laughed? minutes
31. Last time you cried? days
Thursday, December 25, 2008
Good Tidings He Brings

So, my car stereo's been out for the last couple of weeks, and I've been unable to listen to Christmas music! So, I've found myself singing the few Christmas songs I know just to break the silence! (Be grateful none of you are riding with me!) And I've realized that there are several songs that I've been singing my whole life without ever realizing the words I was singing. These Christmas songs were all written about the Savior, and I've been singing them without really realizing their significance. So, this year, I've really been noticing the messages in our Christmas songs. I spoke in sacrament meeting last Sunday, and here's the outline of my talk:
O, Holy Night
Long lay the world in sin and error pining. Till He appeared and the soul felt its worth. A thrill of hope the weary world rejoices, For yonder breaks a new and glorious morn.
---"The soul felt its worth." Isn’t that an explanation of the Spirit confirming something to you? The world FELT the importance of the Savior’s coming. It’s a tangible feeling that we can still feel today. It’s the Spirit confirming to us the value of the Savior’s birth and His life. It SHOULD bring a “thrill of hope!” Our “weary world” has great reason to rejoice because Christ brings us a “new and glorious morn!”
Joy to the World
Let earth receive her King! Let ev’ry heart prepare him room,
Prepare Him room. Let Him in. Let earth RECEIVE her King! Receive is an acceptance. It’s not just automatic. You have to hit the “receive” button to get your email. Receiving takes action. We must prepare room for Him in our hearts and receive Him.
Angels We Have Heard on High: Extra verse by Melissa Cook
Some may try to deny his name
Even dare to slay the King
But of Him we’ll testify
And with other Saints I'll sing
Gloria!
Theme of “some” doing one thing, BUT I’m not going to follow that. They DARED to slay the King. But of Him I’ll testify. We must bear testimony.
D&C 76:22-24
And now, after the many testimonies which have been given on him, this is the testimony, last of all, which we give of him: That he lives! For we saw him, even on the right hand of God; and we heard the voice bearing record that he is the Only Begotten of the Father—That by him, and through him, the worlds are and were created, and the inhabitants thereof are begotten sons and daughters unto God.
Away in a Manger
And fit us for heaven to live with thee there
We need to be fitted. We need to be prepared and changed in order to live with Him.
Hark the Herald Angels Sing
Mild he lays his glory by,Born that man no more may die;Born to raise the sons of earth,Born to give them second birth.
He laid His glory by. He left His Kingdom, descended from an elevated position of prominence, power & privilege to perform an act of service for someone of a lower station which they cannot do for themselves. This was His purpose in coming to mortal. To save us. To raise the sons of earth. To give us second birth (resurrection)
President Gordon B. Hinckley
Born in a manger, He came to earth under the humblest of circumstances. The Son of the Almighty became the Savior of all mankind. He walked the roads of Palestine working miracles. He healed the sick, He brought sight to the blind. He raised the dead. He blessed the little children and condemned any who should offend them. He left His mark upon the world, which can never be erased or diminished. Concluding that brief life was the agony of Gethsemane and the terrible suffering of Golgotha, to be followed by the glory of the Resurrection. No other had ever before done what He did. He rose from the grave, and thought His great act of Atonement came salvation for all men. Our eternal lives are in His hands, and our eternal progress lies in obedience to His teachings.
Far, Far Away on Judea’s Plains
Lord, with the angels we too would rejoice;Help us to sing with the heart and voice:Glory to God, Glory to God,Glory to God in the highest;Peace on earth, goodwill to men;Peace on earth, goodwill to men!
How do we feel about all this? What do we think of what Christ has done for us? Do we rejoice with the angels? We have every reason to! Glory to God in the highest. Praise Him.
The Wondrous and True Story of Christmas
—Gordon B. Hinckley
For each of you may this be a merry Christmas. But more importantly, I wish for each of you a time, perhaps only an hour, spend in silent meditation and quiet reflection on the wonder and the majesty of this, the Son of God. Our joy at this season is because He came into the world. The peace that comes from Him, His infinite love which each of us may feel, and an overwhelming sense of gratitude for that which He freely gave us at so great a cost to Himself—these are of the true essence of Christmas.
I Heard the Bells on Christmas Day--
Then pealed the bells more loud and deep:“God is not dead, nor doth he sleep;The wrong shall fail, the right prevail,With peace on earth, good will to men.”
Till, ringing, singing, on its way,The world revolved from night to day,A voice, a chime, a chant sublime,Of peace on earth, good will to men!
What the message of Christmas means to us TODAY. God is not dead, nor doth he sleep. Knowledge and faith in this turns our perspectives from night to day. He brings peace and good will.
Oh Little Town of Bethlehem
How silently, how silently
The wondrous gift is giv’n!
So God imparts to human hearts
The blessings of his heav’n.
No ear may hear his coming;
But in this world of sin,
Where meek souls will receive him, still
The dear Christ enters in.
The gifts of heaven aren’t something we can see or touch. It’s a silent, but wondrous gift to our hearts. Blessings of heaven come as peace and assurance to our hearts. Good will isn’t necessarily a physical thing. It’s a silent blessing. No ear my hear His coming. But MEEK souls will RECEIVE (back to that verb) and Christ will enter into our hearts.
Jesus is the Living Christ, the immortal Son of God. He is the great King Immanuel, who stands today on the right hand of His Father. He is the light, the life, and the hope of the world. His way is the path that leads to happiness in this life and eternal life in the world to come. God be thanked for the matchless gift on His divine Son.
–The Living Christ: The Testimony of the Apostles
The Best Christmas Ever—Thomas S. Monson
Giving, not getting, brings to full bloom the Christmas spirit. Enemies are forgiven, friends remembered, and God obeyed. The spirit of Christmas illuminates the picture window of the soul, and we look out upon the world’s busy life and become more interested in people than things. To catch the real meaning of the “spirit of Christmas,” we need only drop the last syllable, and it becomes the Spirit of Christ.
The Gifts of Christmas—Thomas S. Monson
There is no better time than now, this very Christmas season, for all of us to rededicate ourselves to the principles taught by Jesus the Christ. It is the time to love the Lord our God with all our heart—and our neighbors as ourselves. It is well to remember that he who gives money gives much, he who gives time gives more, but he who gives of himself gives all. Let this be a description of our Christmas gifts.
A Pattern of Love—James E. Faust
At the heart of the message of the Savior of the world is a single, glorious, wonderful, still largely untried concept. In its simplest terms the message is that we should seek to overcome the selfishness we all seem to be born with, that we should overcome human nature and think of others before self. We should think of God and serve Him, and think of others and serve them.
MERRY CHRISTMAS
Monday, December 22, 2008
Cousins ... and snow fun!
Every year after Thanksgiving, the moms wake up at o-butt-thirty to go shopping. It's just bad news. The throw elbows at Walmart and hold each other places in line at Target. As much as I LOVE shopping, I've never been interested in this mess. A couple of years ago, Kimball came to Grandma's house for Thanksgiving with me. The day after Thanksgiving, we got up EARLY to get a digital camera at Circuit City. They were sold out within 30 seconds of the store opening. We didn't get one. We came back home and went to bed. I'm NOT a morning person! This year, the South Town mall in Sandy opened at midnight the day after Thanksgiving! I AM a night person! My 18-year-old cousin, Sydney asked if I wanted to go shopping with her. Heck yes! I figured we'd be home and in bed by 2. We stopped at a gas station to by Satan's nectar (No Fear caffeine energy drinks) to sustain us for a couple of hours. A couple of hours?! Yeah. We were there until 5:30 a.m.! People are CRAZY who does this?! I did. And it was fun. But sheesh! The best part of the whole night was when we stepped into Maurices at 12:00 ... I was helping Sydney find some cute outfits. I'm in Utah. I know noone. I'm not even looking at people, just trying to stay out of everyone's way. I come around a corner and who do I find?! My cousin's wife, Pauline! She's a Silvester! Wrong side of the family! What is SHE doing there? They'd been living in Boise and just moved to Saratoga Springs the week before. I knew that. I just didn't expect to see her at the mall after midnight! Crazy/excited reunion in Maurices! I LOVE those kinds of surprises!
We found Santa just walking down the street!
I had some time to kill-- and the snow was calling my name!
Wednesday, December 17, 2008
Why Don't I Fit In?
Friday, December 12, 2008
Christmas taggety-tag...
Wrapping paper, with extra tape and sometimes patches to cover when I didn't cut it big enough. Yeah, I'm CLASSY!
2. Real or artificial tree?
REAL! Are you kidding me?! There's nothing better than chasing your best friend and her brothers up the side of a snowy mountain with saws in tow, and then tackling your friend and face planting on a stick, nearly puncturing your eye ball! Yeah. Oh ... this was all on our way to cut down a Christmas tree. Sorry, got off on a tangent. Fake trees are just that ... fake. I don't like the fake.
3. When do you put up the tree?
I never really do anymore. Mom usually does it while I'm gone. I come home, and there's a fake tree in our living room. What's that about? It's pretty, but I protest! Again, I LOVE real trees! I remember Christmas tree hunting at lots when I was little. Fake tree in a box just takes all the magic away!
4. When do you take the tree down?
Mom will probably do that, too. After her New Year's party. She has about 30 people over every year and she likes to keep the decorations up to be festive for the party!
5. Do you like eggnog?
Occasionally. It usually needs to be thinned down a bit. Egg nog milkshakes ROCK! Lara makes them the best!
6. Favorite gift received as a child?
I remember getting a purple scooter. It's funny, I remember it sitting at my Grandma's house with a bow on it, and being all sorts of excited about it ... but I never remember riding the thing. What's that about?
7. Hardest person to buy for?
Friends little gifts. I never know who I should include in my mass-gifting. If it's a group of friends, they're all going to know what you got for each person, so you can't leave anyone out, and you kinda have to get them all the same thing because you can't play favorites, and who has time to do that kind of individualized shopping anyway?
8. Easiest person to buy for?
Kimball. I always have way too many ideas and I have to limit myself. The girl just likes everything and we have so many funny jokes that I try to personalize and I seriously have way too much fun with it!
Angel Tree gifts are always fun to do, too! Every year, I pick a kid and I get to go crazy! This year, I decided to shop for my friends' kids instead and I've had a blast buying kid stuff for kids I actually know!
9. Do you have a nativity scene?
Somewhere, in a box downstairs I have 2. But I live at my parents' house, so mom gets to decorate with her stuff. My nativity sets, ghetto reindeer and singing Homer Simpson in a Santa suit will have to remain downstairs until next year. Or, if I get my own place, i may have to put them out in March!
10. Mail or email Christmas cards?
MAIL! Email is too: "I'm bored at work, so I thought I'd send this quick, impersonal note without any forethought, and now our correspondance is taken care of, and it's one less thing I have to worry about." Well, ya know what?! It's CHRISTMAS! Ya'll SHOULD worry about it! Share the love! Des and I sent out Christmas cards together for years ... like a married couple ... odd ... but I loved it!
11. Worst Christmas gift you ever received?
Worst? I'm trying to think ... I don't know that anything would be really horrible, but it seems like every year I get mess kits and freeze-dried camp food and pocket knives and emergency blankets from my dad. He says it's for my 72-hour kit. Thrilling. But seriously ... how many mess kits does a girl need to use in 72 hours?
12. Favorite Christmas movie?
A Muppet Christmas Carol. "It's in the singing of a street corner choir ..." I've already watched it 3 times this season, and there's sure to be a 4th! It's just not Christmas until you watch Rizzo fall through a chimney.
13. When do you start shopping for Christmas?
Usually in November when I get all hyped up. I should start sooner, because i never have money ... but oh well. There's something about crunch time and counting the pennies with each paycheck that just comes along with the Christmas season.
14. Have you ever recycled a Christmas present?
He he! Yep! Ssshh.
15. Favorite thing to eat at Christmas?
Mom's carmel brownies--frozen. Grandma's soft gingerbread men. Carmel popcorn. Cinnamon hot chocolate. It's a very sugary holiday!
16. Lights on the tree?
I LOVE the bright colored lights. The ones with ALL the colors!
17. Favorite Christmas song?
SANTA BABY! He he! This was my mom's answer when she was asked in Primary what her favorite Christmas hymn was! MY favorite Christmas hymn is Angels We Have Heard on High with Melissa Cook's added verse that we sang in ward choir a couple years ago. I also LOVE Hark the Herald Angels Sing/Carol of the Bells from the SheDAISY. And then there are classic funny ones like The Hat I Got for Christmas is Too Big ... he he!
18. Travel at Christmas, or stay home?
I've never had a Christmas anywhere but at Grandma and Grandpa's! Only children don't like to stay home! All the cousins come and we have a blast! I especially love it when cousins get fun stuff like Dance Dance Revolution and Guitar Hero from Santa and then we make Uncle Rod try it out!!
19. Can you name all of Santa's reindeer?
Is this a test? Am I s'posed to? Dasher, Dancer, Prancer, Vixen, Comet, Cupid, Donner, Blitzen, Rudolph.
20. Angel or star at the top of the tree?
Mom has a grapevine star. Very crafty. Very rustic. Not so glowy. I protest. I like the star idea, but I like the tacky gold tinsel/light-up one that I grew up with!
21. Open the presents Christmas Eve or Christmas morning?
Ya get pajamas on Christmas Eve, and the rest comes in the morning!
22. Most annoying thing about this time of year?
Icy roads and snow storms before I get my snow tires on! Also, windy snow when I want to be snowboarding!
23. Favorite ornament theme or color?
I love green. All year 'round. Grandma got new limeish green bulbs on her tree and I LOVE them! My favorite ornaments are the ones I remember when I was little. Mom keeps them in a box somewhere. I have Bianca from the Rescuers that I think I made dad buy me one year from Burger King! Love her!
24. Favorite Christmas dinner?
Aunt Lizette's homemade tamales! with Grandma's homemade chili. Seriously? Best food EVER! and I like to find the hidden green olive!
25. What do you want for Christmas this year?
I asked for a snowboarding hat with built-in headphones. Those things are seriously COOL! and that's be super convenient! I love surprises, but those usually come in the form of mess kits and giant candy canes!
I tag ... Andrea, Lara, Pauline, Lisa John, and Shinae.
OH! AND I TAG DREW!! ;^)
Thursday, December 11, 2008
Just one year ago ...
But ... I've been thinking about it a lot lately. I went to devotional last week, and Brother Bergstrom talked about the new foundations program at BYU-Idaho. He made some comment that really hit me. He said that our education is a talent that we've worked hard to develop. I thought hard about that. I've never really considered myself a very talented person. I'm not very coordinated or athletic, I can't play any musical instruments ... frankly, I'm just a waste of oxygen! But I'm an educated waste of oxygen! Many people don't have it in them to go to school. I never understood how people would want to jump into a career after college. I wanted to extend my college experience for as long as possible! I LOVE to learn! And I'm pretty good at it! I didn't get the greatest grades, but in my job as a transcript processor, I'm seeing a LOT of transcripts that are much worse than mine! Actually, when I looked up my own transcript, I felt a sense of accomplishment!
Yes, I took forever to graduate. No, I don't have a successful job to validate all of my education. But I have done something very valuable with my time here at BYU-Idaho, and I'm truly grateful for my education!
Wednesday, December 10, 2008
Good News!
Thanks again for all your prayers and support!
Wednesday, December 3, 2008
Post Referral
But, I'd just like to take this time to refer you to one of the funnier posts I've read lately. Remember my post earlier about not being clever? And about how some people just are?! I seriously wish I'd had the idea to do this first. I have a few collectors I'd like to try it on ... but anyway ... want a good laugh? Go here http://jonandfriends.blogspot.com/ and read the post from Dec. 2nd. Seriously, hilarious. Better than anything I could have said.
Tuesday, November 25, 2008
The Glad Game
Brimball [Brooke and Kimball] just doin' what we do best!
I'm glad that ...
Andrea, Lauralynn, Kary and me in our Sunday School class ... when we were like 11?
I'm glad that ...
I found the world's most amazing new friends who all have the same names. I've only known them for a month or two, but I can't imagine what my life would be like without their laughs, smiles, random text messages, support and love. And I'm really glad we all have the same names. That's just fun.
Roommates: Jeniel, Kimball, Alyssa, Alison and me. "And just like that, there's way too much love in the room!"I'm glad that ...
I don't have to act like I'm twenty-six. There's no rule saying that you can't link arms and spin each other around in the movie theater parking lot past the age of thirteen. I like being silly. I don't want to have to grow up. My grandpa never did. I don't have to, either. Life is more fun this way. I'm sorry if my immaturity bugs some people, but I'm glad that I can be me and that those I love actually love me for that. I'm glad that I have those fun people to be silly with! And I'm glad for peanut butter.
I'm glad that ...
I have some totally awesome cousins and I'm part of such an amazing family. I have to second Jen's comment on our web relationships and how good it is to be able to keep in touch this way and get to know each other better. I love my family. I love their witty comments and funny pictures and their love and support and interest in all of our lives.
I'm glad that ...
I get to go to Utah for Thanksgiving and spend time with my mom's side of the family. I have developed such a bond with some of these cousins, and we never cease to make each other laugh! I think the Lord put a whole lot of quirky personalities in one family, but it sure makes holidays a lot of fun! I'm so excited for whatever crazy-fun stuff is going to happen this year, and I'm so glad I get to share that with my amazing family. And guess what?! I get to be a part of this forever!!

I'm glad that ...
There's such an amazing place as Palisades and that my uncle owns an RV park there. I'm glad that I can run away and climb rocks and sing songs and explore the river and even stay overnight under a snow bank if I want to. I'm glad for my home away from home and I'm glad for the friends who appreciate it, too and like to share in that with me! (I wish I had pictures from Sunday when Lisa John and I were there, but she took the pictures and hasn't shared yet!)
Todd and Sarah in Larry [the canoe] going down the river in Palisades.I'm glad that ...
Shinae and Alan have let me into their lives. I'm glad that I can come and feel comfortable and loved and supported and included. I love the time we get to spend together and our moments of appreciation for each other. I love McKylla and Abby and the smiles and laughter they bring to my life. I'm glad that Abby said, "Burke! [that's me] You're home!" when I came over today and then, "Burke! Watch!" as she does this crazy dance jig all over the living room!
I'm glad that ...
I found a job that I'm really excited about working at BYU-Idaho in the credit transfer department. I'm glad that I get to go back and spend time in familiar territory and kick it in Rexburg every day! I'm glad that, even though this job is only temporary and it doesn't include any insurance benefits, I've prayed about it and I know it's right and I have faith that I'll be taken care of in April when this position ends.
I'm glad that ...
I got to go to Forgotten Carols as is tradition and take Shinae with me. I'm glad that we always meet up with LyDee and Trista and I'm glad that we've been able to stay so close through the years, even though we don't see each other very often. I'm grateful for the Forgotten Carols, and the messages I always learn and the spirit I feel. I'm glad that I am ALWAYS moved by the song "Three Kings," and even though I bawled like a baby, I loved it more this year than ever. I'm also glad that I've finally "found my way" ...
I'm also glad that ...
I'm glad that ...
Tuesday, November 18, 2008
Full of Crap!!
Jeanna, Lisa and Brooke in the hot tub. We threw Jen off. She came out expecting the OTHER Gina, Lisa and Brooke who are all roommates! I have a job interview tomorrow at BYU-Idaho. It's for a temporary position (until April) dealing with transferred credits and diploma verifications. This could be an answer to prayers, too! I'll let you all know how that goes!
Wednesday, November 12, 2008
I am not clever.
I also come from a line of genetic cleverness. Want some laughs? Stop by my cousin Amanda's blog. Or go visit Uncle Kelan in Portland. (I just did, and he has a very eery resemlance to my father post-moustache. I never saw it until my daddy shaved. That in itself was entertaining!) More funniness? Seth and Andrea ALWAYS crack me up. Just simple observations of everyday life turned witty. But seriously? I try and it just doesn't happen for me. That's my problem. If you have to TRY to be funny, you just don't get it. Like those people who explain why their jokes are funny. I DO THAT! Or those that get a kick when they make someone laugh, so they push it even further (Brian Regan does this, but I seriously get a kick out of him.) ...
But there's a difference between humor and cleverness. I want to be clever. I want to say something smart with a twist of wit that leaves people laughing and contemplating, while I just continue in my jolly, witty existence. For those of you BYU-Idaho graduates, do you remember Comic Frenzy? Do you remember some of the freakin' hilarious people who piloted that program and continue on in their endlessly humorous lives? My favorites? James and Valerie Best. Ben Parkes. Annie Hurst Howington (mother of Lila), Jon-Peter Lewis (yes, the American Idol guy) ... I've been cruising through their blogs and seriously considered posting some of their stuff as my own. Or, at least mimicking some of their ideas with my own twist ... but whatever. I need to give credit where credit is due. I want to share with you a list that Valerie Best wrote on Jon-Peter's blog. (yes, these witty people run in the same circles and often contribute to each others' witticisms). And, I'm posting this without her permission. Take that, Valerie.
Things Fall is Good For:
1. Eating apples (not these depressing ones from the grocery store, eating apples from farmer's markets, or from one of those farms where you pick your own fruit)
2. Buying sweaters from thrift stores (James just informed me that there's no use buying new sweaters, as they've been making the same three styles of sweaters since the beginning of time. I think he may have a point)
3. Learning to bake a pie
4. Using the word deciduous in conversation
5. Learning to spell the word deciduous (full disclosure: I looked it up)
6. Entering a chili cook-off
7. Starting a scrapbook of that stuff that piles up in your wallet (concert tickets, metro cards from D.C., movie tickets, etc)
8. Cooking something in a crock pot
9. Taking very long walks, and calling them constitutionals
10. Memorizing the Gettysburg Address
Seriously? Funny. That's all I have to say about it. I really can't say anything more, because that would be pointint out the funny in something that's just standalone funny! So, if you'd like to be further entertained, I'd recommend clicking on the links I've given you. Stop looking here. You won't find anything nearly that funny. I may, however, get the gumption to try. But then in "trying" I'll have already failed.
Monday, November 10, 2008
Freakin' Lovely!



Tuesday, November 4, 2008
Not a Political post!
Debra, me and Coralyn: Old roommates at Bishop Smith's house for Family Home Evening. Coralyn came from Oregon to visit before leaving on her mission to California! There's lots of loving here, and it makes me so happy!!
Thursday, October 30, 2008
Absolute Adjectives: Best?
So ... I've been a little confused lately about degrees.Elder Oaks said: "There were three degrees of quality: good, better, and best. We have to forego some good things in order to choose others that are better or best because they develop faith in the Lord Jesus Christ and strengthen our families."
Dallin H. Oaks, “Good, Better, Best,” Liahona, Nov 2007, 104–8
But, there are several "good" things ... and probably fewer "better" things ... but is there only one "best"? Who's to say that one "best" isn't just as good as another? And who's to say that you can't choose multiple "bests" and still forego the things that get in the way, that may only be "good"? How do we truly define the one and only "best"?
I've researched a bit into absolute adjectives. You can't be "more perfect" ... something's either perfect, or it's not! Yet, Jefferson wrote the Constitution of the United States "in order to form a more perfect union." So, if Jefferson can say it, why can't we? If there can be a "more perfect," then, I believe there's such a thing as multiple "bests".
Then there's "more unique."
"Unique" is a word that means "unlike any other." Someone or something can either be incomparable (unique) or like someone or something else (not unique). People and things cannot be "very unique" or "more unique" than others. Colloquial speech has developed an alternate meaning of "unique" - "unusual," which is not absolute and can therefore be modified in a comparative manner. However, this usage is not acceptable in standard written English and formal speech. --I can't properly cite this. Joelle found it for me, but didn't give me the source!
But what about when it comes to "Best Friends"? I have friends that I love! I have so many favorite memories, that they've stopped being favorites! (Is "favorite" another qualified word that I need to define?) When I was younger, I always wanted a best friend! Everyone around me always seemed to be partnered up, and I was always a third wheel! I had a "Best Friend" club when I was nine with Heidi Lewis and Melanie Fullmer. We had the necklaces and the matching ... whatever. One day in seventh grade, Melanie Gray and I spent an afternoon together at the mall, and ended up with "Best Friend" rings. Elissa Owens and I had a summer or two with our "Best Friend" notes and adventures. When I was that young, I'd take whatever best friend would have me! I still played and had fun with Lindsay, Andrea, Lauralynn, Krystal, Shantel, Amanda, Nicole, Melissa, Marianne, Tammy, April ... but I'd always looked for that "pairing off" of a best friend!
Brooke & Des

Brimball
So, was I betraying Desirae as my "best friend" when Kimball came along in college? Kimball and I practically shared a brain. We didn't have to explain ourselves, we always knew what the other was thinking and we were able to follow through with the jokes! Kimball was the first to make me feel wanted individually. Everywhere we went, she'd look for me and be by my side. We really enjoyed each others' company and found that we completed each others' senses of humor! Everything was funny with Kimball. We just couldn't get enough of spending time together! We'd play and do things, but most of all, we'd laugh! Kimball hated the term "best friend" because she thought it was a declaration of ownership. We'd never use the term until one day, we were talking and it just slipped out! "I don't know how it happened, but you've become my best friend! You're sneaky like that!" I know the term "best" means there should only be one. But, Desirae has not been replaced! These two "bests" fill different parts of my life! Can't I have more than one best friend?

I am so grateful for these three BESTS in my life! They're not in any sort of rivalry. I don't agree that "best" in an absolute adjective. These three are all bests for different reasons, for the different values they add to my life, and for the roles they all play in my happiness, completion, and helping me become a better person.
“Oh, how we need each other. Those of us who are old need you who are young. And, hopefully, you who are young need some of us who are old. It is a sociological fact that women need women. We need deep and satisfying and loyal friendships with each other.”
In Virginia H. Pearce, ed., Glimpses into the Life and Heart of Marjorie Pay Hinckley (1999), 254–55.
I've done tributes to my three best friends on my sidebar. I intend to keep them all there for awhile. They each deserve that special place and that recognition!
Sunday, October 26, 2008
Clearing up Ambiguity
I've been sharing a lot of thoughts and insights without shedding any light on actual events or applications. So, just to keep you all informed, here's a summary of what's been going on in Brooke's world:
Through Shinae, I've learned a lot about friendships and supporting and uplifting each other. I've studied and gained a strong testimony of doing the right things for the right reasons. I love the sociality we have and the call we have in the Gospel to bear one anothers' burdens. I've seen how good and righteous friendships can help us grow. I've been truly grateful for the things I've learned and for the fellowship I feel in my life with this kind of friendship. As I've referenced "relationships" in my previous blogs, this is usually what I've been referring to.
As for "dating" relationships, there's nothing to report. I have close guy friends that I knew in Rexburg, and I've actually spent some time with Richard, Gary and David all recently. Don't get your hopes up. Nothing's happening. And on a few occasions, I've been really bothered by them! I'm still looking.
I've started attending the singles' branch in my stake. The very first Sunday I was there, my name was submitted to be a Relief Society instructor. I was sustained today. That was the calling I held in Rexburg right before I left. I learned to enjoy it there, and I hope to get to that point here as well. I'm excited, actually! The ward is different from what I'm used to (don't get your hopes up in the dating department with this one!) but they're good people, and I'm keeping an open mind concerning my involvement with the ward. I'm excited to be called to serve and look forward to the development and growth that I know will come from this calling!
I'm currently unemployed. I was met with a few snags with my previous job, and I find myself perusing the Help Wanted ads again. This has been a point of frustration, but seems to be a part of my life as of late. I look forward to the day when I won't have to look for a job for a long time! I'm getting SO tired of this!
I'm still living at my parents' house with no hope of moving out anytime soon.
We're going to Portland!!! This seriously, has become a HUGE matter of excitement! In a week and a half, Shinae and I will take off for 3-4 days of west coast fun! She's leaving McKylla and Abby with Alan, and it'll just be a girls' weekend! And the purpose of this trip?! Here it is, Ashley: We're going to an Alanis Morrisette concert! Now, most of you may laugh. Honestly, I don't blame you. I thought I'd outgrown my Alanis stage several years ago. I've continued to enjoy her music, but never thought I'd be going to her concert! But Shinae introduced me to her latest albums. Shinae loves Alanis and has helped plant that seed again in me as well. Ashley mentioned Alanis Morrisette on her blog recently and I nearly died laughing! I'm glad you like her, too! ;-)
This is one of my FAVORITE pictures of all time!




